Health Rundown

Lately, I've felt a little like a health project.

At the end of August, I had minor surgery on my elbow to try to correct numbness in the fingers in my left hand. The surgery is called cubital tunnel release. The recovery has been pretty fast, but the numbness is pretty much the same. It can take up to a year for the numbness to subside, or it can stay the same. Thing is, without the surgery, I was risking further numbness and wasting to my hand, so I had to try it.

Tomorrow, I have an EMG for both of my hands because of pain and more numbness. I had had a carpal tunnel release in 1997 in my right hand which seemed to help for a while. Apparently, though, carpal tunnel syndrome can return. Or something.

So there's that. A few days ago, I had an endoscopy and colonoscopy because I have had constant heartburn and acid, no matter what I ate. I already know I have a hiatal hernia, which I had been diagnosed with over 20 years ago. When I woke up from the procedure, the doctor told me I have a small ulcer in my small intestine. Why not, right?

Aside from all this, I have an upcoming appointment with an orthopedist to check out my neck. I've talked before about the issues I have with compressions on my vertebrae or whatever I have. My neurologist has not been a tremendous help. In fact, I can't get an appointment with my neurologist at all, just the nurse practitioner. Not to minimize nurse practitioners, but I am not convinced she knows what to do with this condition. She keeps changing the information about it; it's serious, it's not. It can affect this, it can affect that, no it can't. I just don't think she knows. The office won't let me see the doctor. Just weird. So I'm going to an orthopedist. Let him check out the situation.

And I am going to go to a pain management center for my fibromyalgia. I have also been seeing that nurse practitioner for the fibro, but, well, same story. She's also been monitoring my migraines. The pain center should be able to handle that as well.

The balance issues have been status quo, I suppose. Don't move my head fast. Don't let myself get too hungry. Don't bend too quickly. Stuff like that. It is a part of me.

That's my wobbly life for now.

Perhaps it IS all in my head...

Guess you can tell I just had another conversation with Mom.

"You know, Karin, your motion sickness and dizziness in the car is probably anxiety about driving."

(because, you know, she suffered from panic attacks when she was younger. so that MUST be it. never mind the fact that I had a job where I drove all over the county and had NO problems then. and I used to work in a school that was a 25-minute (easy) drive away from my house when I lived in South Carolina. AND I have driven a 15-passenger van. CLEARLY I am anxious about driving!)

"You know, if you try you can overcome this."

(overcome WHAT? a physical condition that I am suffering from? MAYBE if she tries really hard, she can see out of her blind eye? I mean, if it could work for me, it could work for her!)

"Because you know, not driving is SUCH a disadvantage!"

(what do you even say to that? that I am less of a person because I don't drive much? I don't know, when someone gets dizzy in a moving car, PERHAPS driving is not the best idea. HOWEVER, I am a smart and resourceful person. I can figure out what to do to get where I need to go.)

Just for the record, I don't get in the car expecting to get sick or dizzy. I get in the car with my destination in mind. I don't worry about it, I just go, as a passenger OR a driver. It just happens. Sometimes, not every time.

But enough of that stupidity. I had a visit with the neurological nurse practitioner last week. First of all, SHE took my symptoms seriously. She told me it is COMMON for people with my condition to have these issues.

She prescribed Neurontin for me to try. So I am trying it. Guess what? I went in the car a few times and realized LATER that it helps! As a passenger, at least. I think I drove once locally since then and that was ok, too. I haven't tried a long trip yet.

ALSO, she told me that the nature of my illness comes from an issue with my brain stem. I have NO idea what that means. So I looked it up.

I don't know if they are calling my condition migraine-related vertigo (which is in the brain stem) because I DO have migraines, OR if there was something else that messed with my brain stem. Like a stroke. Because, you know, when I first got sick, it came on suddenly AND I had problems swallowing AND I couldn't walk.

<shrug> sounds like it's something, though. And it IS in my head, right?

dizzy rules

I haven't written in a while because things have been stable. And by stable I mean pretty good.

Yes, I have symptoms every day, but that seems to be the way things are.

I used to think that 13 years is a long time to be dealing with chronic dizziness, but I have talked with people who are into 20+ years with it.

In order to keep things from getting too out of control, I have to live by a few rules. I'm sharing them with all of you, especially those in dizzy hell with me. They are:

1. Don't turn your head too fast. Just don't. No matter what you hear or see. I break this rule all the time, especially when I drive because I need to see my blind spot when I pass people.

2. Don't get up and down too fast or too much. Usually doable, but sometimes I still forget.

3. Don't bend if you can possibly avoid it. Makes doing housework, shaving my legs and putting on footwear quite difficult.

4. Don't nod along to people when they are talking. A VERY hard rule for me to remember.

5. Avoid extreme temperatures and weather. Both searing hot and freezing cold temperatures will get my symptoms going. Forget wind. Wind is not my friend. Especially freezing cold wind. Rain? Rain is not the greatest, either, particularly when it falls on my head. And the atmosphere is not comfortable before and during rainstorms. Ice and snow on the ground is a joke. I keep threatening to move South just to avoid snow. However, then we have the extreme heat, so how do you win?

6. Avoid overly salty meals, especially with foods containing MSG. I adore Chinese food. However, no matter what restaurant says that they cook without MSG, they do anyway. Trust me on this one. Also on the "bad" meal list are foods like ham, hot dogs, chips, pretzels, things like this.

7. Avoid too much caffeine. I used to avoid all caffeine, but I missed my coffee in the morning. Sometimes it affects me more than others. I have to live with this or go back to cutting out all caffeine again. Don't even mention cigarettes. Of course I am supposed to quit, for obvious reasons, but also because they are another no-no for people with balance issues. And I haven't. That's my bad.

8. Get enough sleep. I am also living with fibromyalgia and migraines, so I NEVER get enough sleep. Too much sleep is not enough sleep. However, if I get less than I am used to, I can count on having the next day being horribly symptomatic.

9. Avoid alcohol. Another treat I have to limit. I get the spins if I have more than say, two drinks. Sometimes even at one. I pretty much don't ever drink anymore. That one is just not worth it.

10. Try not to get too stressed out. This one is a complete joke. I have a lot of stress in my life (who doesn't?). How do you cap that?

11. Avoid busy environments. Like grocery stores, warehouse stores, malls, arcades, carnivals and such. This really limits where I can go and how long I can stay there. And I truly used to enjoy all of those places. Forget carnival rides, even the merry-go-round (it goes in circles). Oh, any EVERY concert these days has the potential of having a light show.

12. Don't let anyone touch your face or head. Number one, I have kids. My little one especially is always touching my face or my head. It's like a magnet for her. Number two, I work with people with autistic spectrum disorders. They, too, often touch my face. While I can explain to my daughter not to do this (whether or not she remembers is another story), I can't usually explain this to most of the individuals I work with. Other people seem to want to touch my face and head, too. I don't know why. Maybe I just missed the memo.

14. Don't let anyone point in your face. See rule #12.

15. Don't let your blood sugar get too low. As fat as I am, my appetite is like a canary. I go through most days eating one meal, sometimes two. Don't do this, if you can possibly help it. It is a double problem: if you don't eat, your blood sugar drops and you get dizzy. If you wait too long THEN eat, your blood sugar spikes and you get dizzy. I'm working on this one.

Imagine going your whole life like this. Perhaps some of you already do, especially my fellow dizzies. No fun, is it? However, along with these rules, keep the following in mind (it may help maintain your sanity):

1. One bad day does not equal the rest of your life. You may have been symptom-free for weeks, months (years?) and then suddenly wham! you're riding the dizzy train again. Focus on the good days and remember you will be there again. This, too shall pass. (I should get that tattooed on my body somewhere)

2. Try not to take it personally when other people don't "get" your illness. They can't see it. They haven't experienced it for themselves. Many people don't give a damn. Oh, and how many think it's "in your head"? It's so hard to hear that, but you just have to ignore them or try to educate them, and realize THEY are the one with the problem, not you. You simply have a vestibular problem. This is quite easy for me to say, way harder for me to put into action. Still, I know I'm right.

3. You don't have to put up with inferior medical treatment. If you have an unpleasant or uninformed doctor, nurse practitioner or physical therapist, find a new one. If you have to go through a dozen medical professionals until you find the right one, by all means do so. Of course, sometimes insurance, finances, time and distance play a role in this. Still, if you can remedy this problem in any way (like seeing a different doctor or therapist in the same practice, for example), it's worth it. YOU are the reason THEY have jobs in the first place, and when they lose sight of that, it's time to move on.

4. You are not alone. You may have never met a single soul who shares your vertigo nightmare. Believe me, though, we exist. Before I got dizzy, I knew exactly one other person who experienced the same thing. For whatever reason (luck was on her side!), she received a diagnosis and good treatment with her FIRST attack. Unlike myself, who took 12 years to get a proper diagnosis and meaningful treatment. At first, NOBODY else had ever heard of dizziness/balance/vertigo issues. I found a few people online, then a few more, then a few more. As I racked up years of dizziness under my belt, though, I have met more and more people outside of the Internet who have had these problems. Or knew someone else who did. I have discovered that more people have heard of Meniere's than BPPV, so I say I have Meniere's. To be completely honest, I don't know which of the two I actually have. Or if it is something in and of itself. Still, it's Meniere's to most people. At least they get it that I have a dizziness problem.

I hope I have helped at least one person understand this condition more. I can't give professional medical advice, but I can pass on what I have learned. If anyone wants any more information, or just support, I would love to hear from you. Be well and hang on. Literally, hang on to whatever you have to. I do it every day.

why are we settling?

so I had an appointment today with the nurse practitioner.

this is with the practice that diagnosed my balance disorder and now treats my migraines and fibromyalgia.

they also track the balance disorder, but basically feel that since I've been through balance therapy and, since I've had it for so long, there's nothing more to be done.

however, I think that is a load of crap.

and I'll tell you why.

they've only recently diagnosed this disorder (well recently in the scheme of things considering how long I've had it) and I've had a whole lot of improvement since they have AND ALSO

since then they also discovered that I have herniated discs in my neck.

now, the nurse practitioner gave me this little gem today.

she said that "most people have herniated discs and have no problems with them."

may I take the time here to call bullshit?

seriously now.

they discovered these herniated discs in my neck, not on accident, but because I was HAVING PROBLEMS WITH MY NECK SO THEY DID AN MRI!

she said that, unless the herniated discs press on nerves, do they cause headaches or tingling in the hands.

DOES SHE EVEN LISTEN TO THE THINGS I HAVE BROUGHT UP IN MY VISITS?

I have been going there for at least a YEAR for migraines and telling her that the migraine medicine does not work.

and, I have gone for an EMG IN THAT OFFICE for TINGLING and NUMBNESS of my hands, which has gotten progressively worse.

can somebody please tell me how what I said is DIFFERENT from what she said?

ok, so she decides that I can see pain management for the treatment of my migraines (I guess that's what I'm going for pain management for...I am still planning to bring up the whole hand tingling thing to them anyway), and that will involve shots in my neck or shoulders, so that is listening to me, I guess.

then she does my neuro part of my exam and that makes me dizzy.

it's the looking down that does it.  doesn't that say something?  it's still my neck.  why can't someone put two and two together????

it happens on a delay, too, not immediately, but within, I guess 4-6 seconds. and lasts quite a while.

it comes in waves, too.  awful.  thinking about it makes me want to get dizzy again, but I'm fighting it.

I don't understand why I can't discuss these issues with a neurologist, you know?  why do I have to keep having a nurse practitioner GUESS at these things?  it's really pissing me off!!

every time I TRY to make an appointment with the neurologist, the staff tells me that I am just MAINTENANCE and that I only need to see the NP, but I don't feel that this is accurate.

I don't know about other patients, but I have had this vestibular thing for almost 13 years.  that's a HELL of a long time to be dizzy.  we are talking almost ONE THIRD OF MY LIFE.  I am sick and tired of being dizzy, to be perfectly honest.  and I imagine, so is everyone around me.  it's draining physically, mentally, emotionally and financially.

so, WHY IS IT that MY issues are less important than any other patients?  I am not what I would call better.  I am not satisfied with the extremely casual attitude the NP had today when she said to me, "some people have vertigo for a very long time."

it has not even been considered that my vertigo is coming from the problems in my neck.  I have been to physical therapy for neck MANY YEARS AGO.  WHY IS NO ONE CONSIDERING THIS??  HOW DO I GET SOMEONE TO LISTEN?

I guess I'll try the pain management doctor, but who knows?  this is almost, but not quite as frustrating as when I had no diagnosis at all.

and, from what I see from others like me, it happens all the time. our issues are, somehow, less important.

go on any vertigo message board and you'll see dozens of frustrated people just like me. or worse. it sucks.