No answers, continued

I saw the neurologist yesterday. The MRI of my cervical spine was also negative. That pretty much rules out MS now.

The doctor still sees weakness in my legs and I am not walking correctly. I still don’t have consistent balance. When I stand for too long, I feel like I’m going to pass out. That’s where we are now.

Next step is an MRI of my lower back and EMG with nerve conduction studies to my legs. I still have to get the bloodwork done, too. I didn’t make vestibular therapy for this week because, frankly, I couldn’t afford all the co-pays. I’ll go back next week as it really does help.

If we can’t find anything, the neurologist is going on the theory that this is a mega virus that has really suppressed my vestibular system and it just has to work itself out.

Trying to stay positive!

So far, no answers

I went for the brain MRI and it came back normal. Good news but no answers. I still have one to get on my cervical spine.

I saw the rheumatologist today and he feels this is not autoimmune. If anything, he feels the spine is worth looking into further. Ok. But still no answers. He is recommending the rest of my back be studied with MRI as well.

My blood work showed impaired kidney function. I have to get that retested. I’m also getting worked up for Lyme and the rheumatologist is also testing me for some muscle disease.

Meanwhile, I have found the vestibular/physical therapy has been helping me reset my balance. It’s getting closer to normal.

I am bored and I want to go back to work, but I can’t see myself working in this current physical state in my particular job. I haven’t even tried driving yet.

That’s about all the progress I haven’t made.

What’s been happening

It’s been a couple weeks.

My dizziness has generally gotten better. I will have problems if I move my head too quickly, but, overall, the dizziness is much better. I think vestibular therapy and time have helped.

I still have shakiness and weakness in my legs. No idea why. I’m also really easily fatigued.

I also went to the ER last week with an attack of colitis. My gastroenterologist said not to worry about it because he had just given me a colonoscopy that showed no disease. However, this has made the fourth time in three years or so that this has happened to me. I don’t know if it’s related to anything, but, since it’s happening now, I thought I’d record it.

I just saw a neurologist yesterday who actually took a long and detailed history of my symptoms and gave me a thorough exam. She is ordering some MRI’s. She did not think this was related to stress (neither did my psychiatrist, btw).

Oh, and the itching finally went away.

I made an appointment with a rheumatologist just in case no one else can figure this out. I do not plan on being sick forever. Or, if I am, I at least want to know what I have.

why are we settling?

so I had an appointment today with the nurse practitioner.

this is with the practice that diagnosed my balance disorder and now treats my migraines and fibromyalgia.

they also track the balance disorder, but basically feel that since I've been through balance therapy and, since I've had it for so long, there's nothing more to be done.

however, I think that is a load of crap.

and I'll tell you why.

they've only recently diagnosed this disorder (well recently in the scheme of things considering how long I've had it) and I've had a whole lot of improvement since they have AND ALSO

since then they also discovered that I have herniated discs in my neck.

now, the nurse practitioner gave me this little gem today.

she said that "most people have herniated discs and have no problems with them."

may I take the time here to call bullshit?

seriously now.

they discovered these herniated discs in my neck, not on accident, but because I was HAVING PROBLEMS WITH MY NECK SO THEY DID AN MRI!

she said that, unless the herniated discs press on nerves, do they cause headaches or tingling in the hands.

DOES SHE EVEN LISTEN TO THE THINGS I HAVE BROUGHT UP IN MY VISITS?

I have been going there for at least a YEAR for migraines and telling her that the migraine medicine does not work.

and, I have gone for an EMG IN THAT OFFICE for TINGLING and NUMBNESS of my hands, which has gotten progressively worse.

can somebody please tell me how what I said is DIFFERENT from what she said?

ok, so she decides that I can see pain management for the treatment of my migraines (I guess that's what I'm going for pain management for...I am still planning to bring up the whole hand tingling thing to them anyway), and that will involve shots in my neck or shoulders, so that is listening to me, I guess.

then she does my neuro part of my exam and that makes me dizzy.

it's the looking down that does it.  doesn't that say something?  it's still my neck.  why can't someone put two and two together????

it happens on a delay, too, not immediately, but within, I guess 4-6 seconds. and lasts quite a while.

it comes in waves, too.  awful.  thinking about it makes me want to get dizzy again, but I'm fighting it.

I don't understand why I can't discuss these issues with a neurologist, you know?  why do I have to keep having a nurse practitioner GUESS at these things?  it's really pissing me off!!

every time I TRY to make an appointment with the neurologist, the staff tells me that I am just MAINTENANCE and that I only need to see the NP, but I don't feel that this is accurate.

I don't know about other patients, but I have had this vestibular thing for almost 13 years.  that's a HELL of a long time to be dizzy.  we are talking almost ONE THIRD OF MY LIFE.  I am sick and tired of being dizzy, to be perfectly honest.  and I imagine, so is everyone around me.  it's draining physically, mentally, emotionally and financially.

so, WHY IS IT that MY issues are less important than any other patients?  I am not what I would call better.  I am not satisfied with the extremely casual attitude the NP had today when she said to me, "some people have vertigo for a very long time."

it has not even been considered that my vertigo is coming from the problems in my neck.  I have been to physical therapy for neck MANY YEARS AGO.  WHY IS NO ONE CONSIDERING THIS??  HOW DO I GET SOMEONE TO LISTEN?

I guess I'll try the pain management doctor, but who knows?  this is almost, but not quite as frustrating as when I had no diagnosis at all.

and, from what I see from others like me, it happens all the time. our issues are, somehow, less important.

go on any vertigo message board and you'll see dozens of frustrated people just like me. or worse. it sucks.

pain in the neck and stress

I saw my PT on Monday.

we did strength training along with VOR.  it wasn't easy.  in fact, it was hard.

not all of it.  parts of it.  specifically, the parts where I had to work with weights.  here's what happened:

I was minding my own business, lifting 6 whole pounds up and down over my head repetitively and it was getting harder and harder, but I kept going because I knew I was out of shape and I wanted to just get through the exercises and I didn't want to look like the out-of-shape piece of crap that I am and I felt the wave of dizziness just start to surge over me, but I kept on going and going because I figured if I didn't do something, eventually I was going to end up a big blob and I just wanted to finish and I did.

then I put the dumbells onto the rack and let the dizziness take over.

one of the therapists, Lauren, saw me and asked if I was ok.  I know they have to ask, but I hate when they ask when you are ok when, clearly, you are not ok.  I said not really and sat down fast.  She got Stacy, my therapist.

they got me water and tried to dissect my vertigo attack.  I felt tears come.  I had driven to therapy that day, which was rare, and I didn't want to leave dizzy.  they now thought I was "all worked up about driving" and that was why I got dizzy.  I knew that wasn't the case.  I now was "worked up" about becoming dizzy, but driving there in the first place didn't make me dizzy!!

when I caught my breath, I said to Lauren that the dizziness came after I lifted my hands above my head with the weights, and that this happens at home, too (without weights, obviously).  I also explained that I have neck problems and had gone for an MRI recently (still waiting on results, don't ask!) and sometimes even turning my head will make me dizzy.

she said (surprise, surprise) that neck problems can cause dizziness.  I knew this.  I remember reading this in someone else's blog and then reading more about this online.  here is some information now: cervicogenic dizziness

so after the dizziness passed, for some reason, I felt stupid.  for some reason, I usually feel stupid.  I don't know why.  I have no control over the dizziness.  it is a physical thing.

maybe it is because they (the therapists) talk about anxiety while the dizziness is happening, or right afterward. or they say things like, "open your eyes,"  which, is probably good advice.  it probably makes you less dizzy and makes the attack faster.

and it's not like anxiety is the worst thing in the world to have.  people live with it every day.  it is a common human response to stressful situations.

however

sometimes

it's

not

anxiety

and that aggravates the crap out of me.

it brings me back to a terrible, awful, horrible place in my life that I'd rather never visit again.

well, yeah, now that I've mentioned it, I will say it here, even though I now want to cry just typing it.

I probably will cry before this entry is finished.

a few years ago, I was, well, in a bad way.

in a mental hospital.  people should not be ashamed to say that.  but, society, the way it is, go ahead and judge me.

I was depressed, I was getting help.  anyway...

while I was in the hospital, I was getting these vertigo attacks.  I've been getting them for 11 years on and off, so it stands to reason.

on top of that, I was under tremendous stress (in a mental hospital, away from my family, depressed), AND, I was being pumped full of different medications to try to stabilize my mood.  it's common knowledge that medications can also make someone who is susceptible to being dizzy, dizzier.

well, the thing is, when I would have these attacks, the hospital staff believed I was "acting out."

if anyone has ever seen movies or TV shows about people in mental wards, you know what they do to patients who "act out," right?

I would be yelled at, grabbed, thrown on a bed and pumped with sedatives.  nice, huh?

this continued until I demanded to see a neurologist who whispered to me, "I believe you."  but not before my stay was extended way longer than it should have been.  they thought my "funny walk" was on purpose, too (it was an unsteady gait due to constant vertigo).

so now you know where I'm coming from.

sometimes when people say something is physical, it's physical.

emotional stuff can add to it.  and does, oh boy does it!

I wonder if I am ever going to get to the bottom of everything that is going on with me.

I wonder if there is a bottom.

taming the migraine

I got in to see the nurse practitioner Monday.

she made an adjustment to my medication.  she also gave me an "emergency" migraine pill, to be taken when the headache is really bad.  it seemed to work pretty well.

I also went for an MRI of my neck.  this is because I discovered somewhere along the line that my neck has been hurting really badly.  the NP wants to check this out because I have had an old injury on my neck (whiplash) which has required physical therapy and she said this could be responsible for the headaches now.  she explained in detail how the nerves in the neck reach the nerves in the head and into the eye, where I have the most of my pain.  she also wants me to get physical therapy for my neck when I go for the other therapy.

we also talked about my progress at balance therapy (or lack thereof).  she was very frank with me.  she told me that, after 11+ years and this many months of therapy, it is what it is.  some people just have to learn to live with being dizzy.  however, the goal of balance therapy, she told me, is to learn to adapt to being dizzy.  be comfortable with it, if you will.  learn to live with being dizzy.

I'm going to be honest.  I'm not comfortable with being dizzy.  I'm not happy with it.  I'm not accepting of it.

I do understand it, for the most part.  I still don't know how I got it in the first place.  Or why I have to be one of the "chosen ones" who get to keep my vertigo where there are lots of "normies" walking around who get vertigo and it goes away.  It's just like everything else in my life.  If something unappealing and less desirable could happen to a person, it's going to happen to me.  I'll get the weird side effects of medications, I'll get the strange symptoms, the wrong diagnoses.  And, apparently, the less-likely ones, too.  Vertigo forever.  It could be the name of punk band.

I've gone twice to bathe dogs with Stacy.  I held up better than I thought I would.  there were times I got dizzy and tired, but I pushed through it.  if I'm going to be dizzy forever, I have to just cowgirl up and do things dizzy.  Now that sounds like a slogan..."Do things DIZZY"  should I put that on t-shirts?